This is not what I am meant to blog about. We have seriously back dated stories to get through but I just had to share this because I am weak. How can a guy send me a 'hey how are you doing/want to get to know you better' email to me and another lady AT THE SAME TIME!! To make it worse I was bcc'ed! Did he think I wouldn't see it? The fool was meant to bcc both of us (if you want to be undercover) and just did me so I can see the original recepient.

I am just tired. I can't even spark. This is foolishness on a whole new level. So please over to you. How do I reply?

PS Don't even think about telling me to ignore this. I must let him know I saw!
14 Responses
  1. LovePaprika Says:


    truth is he is not stupid(hopefully) and wants you to see just that! dont involve your heart with this person. I feel your pain and the old me would want to reply him but i had a bigger duchebag in my life who taught me the art of ignoring him without knowing! it will make you feel and be better in the long run babe...

    BUT if you want to have fun

    reply his message and copy her :D tell him how much he is gonna get your luvin

  2. CaramelD Says:


    I'm so tempted to click reply all but I honestly don't know if it was a simple mistake or just madness. The worst part is that I'm starting to worry that these are the type of people I'm attracting to myself. Good Lord give me strength.

  3. LOL,
    the things women endure on a daily from guys!
    Next they'll say u're stuck up if u dont 'give them face'

  4. SHE Says:

    Was that supposed to be a mass marketing tactic? LOL.

    You may choose to reply all with a sarcastic response or something, if you have his time.
    Who knows, the other person might have replied with a no-problem-lets-hook-up kind of mail already! Hehehehe!

  5. CaramelD Says:

    @ P.E.T Projects, this one is right up there as a legend. I'm afraid for my sanity.

    @SHE, when did sending two separate emails suddenly become hard work? I don't care if he was talking to five people but 'good golly' at this time saving measure!

  6. Myne Whitman Says:

    I don't think you or anyone can ignore this :)

  7. Ginger Says:

    I think I lovePaprika's suggestion! lolss.

    Also laffing at your "The worst part is that I'm starting to worry that these are the type of people I'm attracting to myself".
    That thought does pop up when i get some random man trying to hook m up. Chizoba!

  8. CaramelD Says:

    Myne you are right! I have answered as I couldnt let it go. I was very polite though. You all would have been proud. After general chit chat, I POLITELY asked if he bcc'ed me on purpose or was my name meant for somewhere else!

  9. CaramelD Says:

    Ermmm Ginger! Are you Igbo? Was the last line a prayer or are you trying to give me a heart attack? Ghen ghen!

  10. ManCee Says:

    Dearest CaramelD,
    Do post your response.
    ps: If it is anything short of what LoveP has suggested...I for one shall most def NOT be delighted with thine fine self.

    Meanwhilly, LoveP...I like the way you think. *wide grin+chuckle*

  11. CaramelD Says:

    The dude replied in some insipid way saying it was a mistake and hope I wasn't offended. Mschhewwww.

  12. CaramelD Says:

    @Mancee you must remain delighted in me (by force), I can't pour my wrath on the guy as I will add all th eother things I am angry about so I go for cold politeness..... also lethal.

  13. TheRustGeek Says:

    Lame... more effort than some of the lads I know are making though.. *ahem*

  14. ~Sirius~ Says:

    Smh...... Men.

    I wonder what I would have done if it were me.