"Lose one, let go to get one. Left one, lose some to win some
Story of a champion, sorry I'm a champion. You lost one.." Jay Z

This is where the name of my blog comes from. I feel like in leaving Britain and coming to Nigeria at the age of 25, I'm losing something and trying to grab hold of something else. I also feel lost myself between two countries I love and wonder sometimes where I'm going to end up.

Some other people like me don't feel that tug at all and have happily made their choice but not me!!